about dontsay.no
A simpler (and slightly braver) way to ask someone out
dontsay.no lets you create a small, personal date page with suggested activities and times — so the other person can choose without pressure.
Why does this exist?
Because “wanna hang out?” often turns into lots of back-and-forth (or the conversation just quietly dies). With a simple page, things become more concrete, playful – and easier to answer.
in short
- 1. Create a date page
- 2. Share the link
- 3. See their answer in your dashboard
dontsay.no
About dontsay.no
dontsay.no is a simple web-based tool designed to make it easier to ask someone out on a date.
Many people find it uncomfortable or awkward to express romantic interest directly, especially in the early stages of getting to know someone. dontsay.no was created to reduce that social friction by offering a calm, private way to send a date invitation.
The service is not a dating app and does not provide public profiles, matching, or browsing other users. Instead, it allows a user to create a personal invitation and share it privately with someone they already know.
Once an invitation is shared, the recipient can respond without pressure. The sender is then notified of the response through their account.
dontsay.no is intended for adult users who already have some form of contact and want a respectful, low-pressure way to invite someone on a date. It is not designed for anonymous messaging, public dating, or casual hookups.
Privacy and simplicity are core principles of the service. All invitations are private, and no user content is publicly searchable or visible to others.
dontsay.no is free to use and aims to support clear, honest communication in everyday dating situations.
choices
Activities
Pick a few things you could do together, plus an “Surprise me” option.
time
Date options
Suggest two times – or let them pick another day that works better.
answer
Follow-up
When someone responds, you’ll see it in your dashboard and can follow up with a message.
Privacy & safety
dontsay.no is built to be simple. Only share the link with someone you genuinely want to invite, and keep the conversation kind and respectful.
(This is an MVP — we can expand with a more detailed privacy page, terms, reporting and so on before/after launch.)
Ready to create a date page?
It takes 1–2 minutes. You can preview before you create.